Crossing the Bridges of Life
May 9th, 2008
Many of you know that I’m writing a new book about going through life transitions. I’ve received surveys from over 200 people thus far who have explained how they coped and thrived after a tough life transition. So many folks have mentioned intuition as an invaluable inner compass to guide them through rough waters.
My Life Transition Survey is still open if you’re interested in responding.
One of my favorites books on the topic is “Transitions” by William Bridges. He writes, Between letting go (of the old) and successfully launching the new there is a time of confusion and emptiness. People often feel lost during this time, and too often they interpret that lostness as yet another sign that something is wrong. It is simply a sign that they have entered the fertile chaos of the neutral zone.
Over the next month, I’d like to offer some other ways that intuition can help us get through these inevitable bumps, hill and mountains of life.
Be patient
Transitions usually have a rhythm and a timing all their own. It’s very tempting to “do something — anything.” That course of action usually gets you into a deeper crisis. Trust that there is deep change happening within your psyche that is providing the information and impetus to propel you to the next stage in your life. It can’t — and shouldn’t — be rushed by a hasty decision.
Allow Downtime
What brings you comfort? Is it a quiet walk, doing needlepoint, cooking a favorite meal, listening to music, petting your dog, sitting quietly in your back yard? Intuitive guidance flourishes during those quiet times when your mind is not actively engaged in planning and worry.
Find support
Do you know a good listener you can talk with? You don’t necessarily need advice. You want someone who can ask open-ended questions and listen to your answers without judgment and allow you to find your own way. Is there a good friend, relative, therapist, neighbor, minister or rabbi who might be able to help?
Times of transition are a study in contradiction. At the point you want to rail at the Universe for causing this change in your life, you also need to trust the wisdom of this same Force to bring about the transformation you need. Intuition is extremely helpful in transition, as it will point the way to the path that will take you to your new life.
However, it’s also challenging to attempt to find a balance between taking time to listen to your intuition, and taking action to put your inner guidance into motion. Victor Hugo said this well: “Have courage for the great sorrows of life, and patience for the small ones; and when you have laboriously accomplished your daily task, go to sleep in peace. God is awake.”
Posted by Lynn A. Robinson, author of Trust Your Gut and Divine Intuition






















